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Life can be hard

Posted on by just a girl with no clue

Hey everyone, I’m back on my blog! I know, I haven’t been on here for ages and I’m really sorry for that 😦 Let’s just say that a lot of bad things have been happening to me lately and it’s just really hard to do this and deal with everything else which has been going on. But I’ve come to realise that this blog has actually helped me deal with things, and that I enjoy it too much to just give it up for a small rough patch that’s happening in my life.

So as I previously said, a lot of bad things have happened to me lately. I’m not going to go into detail, but I’ve just been very down for the last couple of weeks. Some unfortunate things have happened to one of my siblings which just has affected my family very significantly, along with friend problems and having a bad relationship with my dad. It’s just like all of these problems came at once and it got a bit too much. And none of these issues have been solved either, but I’ve decided to be optimistic.

I have been moping around, feeling sorry for myself for about a month and I’ve had enough. I’m always faking my happiness, saying that I’m fine, laughing to cover my sadness and I feel like I haven’t smiled for real in a very long time. But now, I’m not going to fake being happy, I’m going to be happy. Yes, I have a lot of bad things going on at the moment but that doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be happy for all of the good things in my life! This bad place I’m in right now, it will pass and it will become just a little tiny bump on the road of my life. I’m going to be happy and I’m not going to let my sadness take over my whole life. Now, I’m not saying that it’s not okay to be sad, because being sad once in a while is just part of life. I’m saying that you shouldn’t let it control you or your happiness.

So when you are going though a tough time, just remember that it will pass, just remember that in twenty years time, when you’re rich and famous, this tiny thing that’s happening right now will hardly mean anything to you! I want every one who reads this post to know that you are strong, and the sadness WILL go away.

I hope you all enjoyed this post and I will definitely be posting more very soon 🙂

Stay beautiful,

Just a girl with no clue, is logging off xx

 

 

 

Granny pyjamas?

Posted on by just a girl with no clue

Hello everyone! I know, I’m a horrible, horrible person because i haven’t posted anything in a whole month. I feel terrible. Trust me, I haven’t forgotten about this blog at all because I always think, ‘that would be good to write on my blog’ or ‘I should tell everyone about what just happened on my blog.’ I just never actually end up writing it! I think you jut get so caught up in life, that you forget to do some of the things that make you the happiest. And this blog is honestly one of the best things I have. So I am so sorry that I haven’t been around lately, I promise you that will change!

So today I want to talk to you about a very embarrassing and uh… interesting experience I had lately. Every year, at my school, we have this competition when people of about groups of twenty have to do a perfromace and sing a song in front of the whole school. And then the teachers that are the judges, decides who wins. I have done it every year since i’ve been in high school and it is such a great experience! Although, many people say that it’s only for losers and its ‘not cool’ to do it. But I still do it anyway because I want to get involved and enjoy my high school experience as much as I can!

So of course this year I signed up and my group leaders decided that we were doing the song Bad Blood by Taylor Swift… But with a slight twist. Basically, it was set in an old peoples retirement home and it was all about us bickering with each other. It was a hilarious idea. So we practiced it for weeks but then came the day I realised that I would hvae to wear old peoples clothes in fron of the whole entire school! I tried to not let it worry me too much, but you have to admit, I was pretty much commtting social suicide. So I asked my mum for some help with choosing out a costume and she said I can wear some floral pyjamas that looked like a grandma would wear with my pink dressing gown that I have had since forever. So I thought that would be a pretty good costume and I actually loked like an old lady when I tried it on.

The performance day came and I was ready… but kind of nervous that I was going to be dressed a a granny in front of th whole school. Goodbye to any possible guy I could date… Goodbye to people thinking I was normal…

But before the performance, I realised that other peoples thoughts didn’t matter! I am going to go out there, try my best and own my granny pyjamas! That’s exactly what I did. Of course i heard a lot of laughter and whispering but I still went out there, gave it my very best shot and I was proud to be standing in front of the whole school in granny pyajams. The performance went smoothly except when I fell over back stage and held everyone else up… But something like that was bound to happen to me, I;m just glad it wasn’t worse. Afterwards, while we were waiting for the results, I was excited to find out if we were going to win. I actually thought we had a really good chance.

So then, they announced the winner and it was… US! We were so happy that all of our hard work and sacrificed lunch times for rehearsals was worth it! Once again, I ran up onto the stage with my granny pjs still on along with everyone else and received our award! All I can say is that embarrassing myself was totally worth it.

So to all of you… Please don’t be afraid to do something in high school or anywhere else just becase of what other people think. If you enjoy doing it, then do it! Because in the end we will look back on these memories when we made a fool out of ourselves and be proud of them! So when an opportunity comes up, ask yourself, what would I regret more? Doing this or not doing this? The choice is yours.

Stay lovely,

Just a girl with no clue, is logging off xx

10 completely random facts about me

Posted on by just a girl with no clue

Hello everyone, good morning, good afternoon, good evening or good night! Thank you, thank you and thank you for all of your comments and likes on my last post! It really helped me and I’m glad I have a place where I can just vent and be myself for a while, you know?

So today, on a more positive note, I will be telling you some facts about me. All of these facts are going to be completely honest and I hope you enjoy!

1. I am a blonde, and yes, I do have blonde moments even though that sounds completely stereotypical! I just have to admit that I can be a bit ditzy at times!

2. When I finish high school, I hope to go to a university with the best writing courses possible. It doesn’t matter where in the world this university may be, I will get into to it. (As you can tell, I’m a little determined.)

3. I hate when people eat loudly! It completely grosses me out, I mean, can’t people just chew quietly?

4. I believe that we are all here for a reason, that we can make a difference in this world… No matter how small that change may be.

5. I have accidentally shaved one of my eyebrows off. For more information on that, have a look at my blog post called ‘Eyebrows…’

6. I am completely uncoordinated, the only things I am not completely uncoordinated at are writing and netball. Apart from those two things, I’m pretty hopeless.You should’ve seen me try gymnastics in P.E last year, my friends thought that it was hilarious… unlike me.

7. I tend to embarrass myself at least ten times a day… It’s sort of like a second nature to me now.

8. All the guys who I have been with or I have had a crush on are jerks. It’s literally like I am attracted to players and losers.

9. I am not happy with the way I look due to the fact that I don’t look like the perfect girl who society tells us to be. I try to be happy with myself though, because I know that we are all beautiful in our own way, even if I sometimes don’t think that.

10. Lastly, I am totally against popularity and labels. We all get labelled for things that we’re not and I don’t think that’s right. I also think that it doesn’t matter if you’re ‘popular’ or not because frankly, popularity is just something to make some people feel happy with themselves and others feel sad.

So that is ten random facts about me, I hope you enjoyed this blog post and remember to comment! Maybe tell me some facts about you, or some facts that we both may have in common.

Remember to stay fabulous,

Just a girl with no clue, is going offline xx